Special Topic Forum
Every so often I receive a letter asking me a question that is not actually about cyber romance but still merits a response. Some questions require a larger base of experience and information than I can provide; therefore I have added this forum for public input on certain questions and topics. Please send in your views on the topic at hand for publication here.
CURRENT QUESTION FOR DISCUSSION:
"I am wondering if others have a problem with a spouse looking at porn sites?"
Nov. 9, 1999, Michele writes:
Why would I have a problem with my lover looking at porn sites? He is human.
As long as he is coming home to me things are fine. There is nothing wrong with looking. Men are very visual.... I think to myself, he is being satisfied by me and noone else.
Dec. 29, 1999, Pam writes:
Well, he's being satisfied by you and all the ladies out there in pornland. Why isn't he satisfied with looking at you instead of needing a bunch of women who clearly lack respect for themselves? Have you seen that stuff? It's not sexy at all, it's garbage. What does that say about his self respect and his ability to respect others including the women in his real life?"
Jan. 27, 2000, Emma writes:
1) Check it out and view it yourself. 2) What's it about? If it involves children or animals you have a big problem. 3) Is there more attention to the web porn as time goes by. 4) If it bothers you, you need to say somthing soon. If you wait too long, they'll just think you're nuts for letting it go on. 5) If it's not free - get rid of it... #2 I believe is the "big problem."
What do you think? What has your experience been?
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